Your First Mediumship Reading: What to Expect

Ever wondered what actually happens during a mediumship reading? You’re not alone! As a psychic medium in Peterborough, Ontario, I get this question ALL the time. Let me give you the real scoop – no fluff, just facts.

Here’s the thing: your first reading doesn’t have to be scary or mysterious. It’s actually pretty amazing. Think of it like having coffee with your loved ones – except they’re in Spirit form and I’m translating the conversation.

What Is Mediumship, Really?

Simply put? I connect you with your loved ones who have passed away. That’s it. No crystal balls, no dramatic theatrics – just me, you, and the beautiful souls who want to chat with you again.

Your loved ones in Spirit are still very much themselves – same personality, same sense of humor, same way of showing love. Death doesn’t change who they are; it just changes how we communicate with them.

As mediums know, every reading is different because every person and every Spirit connection is unique. Some sessions are emotional, some are funny, and some are surprisingly practical (yes, your grandma might still have opinions about your dating life!).

Before Your Reading: Keep It Simple

What to Do

• Come curious, not demanding. Your loved ones know what you need to hear
• Think about who you’d most like to hear from – but stay open to whoever shows up
• Relax! There’s no wrong way to have a reading

What NOT to Do

• Don’t test me or your loved ones (“If this is really my dad, what’s his middle name?”)
• Don’t come with a huge list of specific questions
• Don’t worry if you get emotional – this is healing work
• Don’t stress if you’re skeptical – that’s totally fine too

During Your Session: Here’s What Happens

When I do psychic medium readings, I start by connecting with with your energy. I’m an empath – which basically means I feel energy – yours, the rooms, objects, etc. Since your Spirit Loved Ones are all ready in the room with us trying to chat, I like to distinguish what they feel like and what’s just coming from you. 

Your loved ones will show me things that prove it’s really them:

• How they looked or dressed
• Their personality quirks
• Shared memories only you would know
• Messages they want you to hear
• Sometimes even physical sensations they had

Real talk: Not every detail will make sense immediately. You can take quick reference notes for later or record your private session (I do record Zoom calls so you don’t have to) because sometimes the “random” stuff becomes meaningful later.

Common Messages from Spirit

Your loved ones usually want to:

• Let you know they’re okay and at peace
• Apologize for things left unsaid
• Share how proud they are of you
• Give you guidance about current situations
• Remind you of happy memories
• Introduce you to other family members in Spirit

What If My Person Doesn’t Come Through?

Sometimes other spirits come forward first – maybe a grandparent you didn’t expect, or a family friend. Don’t worry! Spirit knows what they’re doing. Often these “surprise” visitors have important messages or they’re helping your main person communicate.

If your specific loved one doesn’t show up this time, it doesn’t mean they don’t love you or care. Sometimes they need more time to learn how to communicate from Spirit, or the timing just isn’t right. Trust the process.

After Your Reading: Now What?

You Might Feel:

• Emotional (all the feels are normal!)
• Peaceful and comforted
• Amazed by the specific details
• Like you want to tell everyone about it
• A little tired (spiritual work can be draining)

Keep the Connection Going

Your reading doesn’t end when you leave. Many people find that mediumship sessions open them up to more signs from their loved ones:

• Songs that remind you of them playing at perfect moments
• Finding pennies or other meaningful objects
• Dreams that feel super real
• Sensing their presence during tough times

If you’re interested in energy healing too, many of my Peterborough clients find that Reiki sessions help them stay open to these ongoing connections. There’s something beautiful about combining mediumship with Reiki – it’s like getting a spiritual tune-up!

Choosing Your Medium

What to Look For

When searching for “mediums near me,” find someone who:

• Makes you feel comfortable and safe
• Focuses on healing, not shock value
• Gives you specific, meaningful details
• Has good reviews from real people
• Treats this work with respect

Red Flags

Avoid anyone who:

• Guarantees specific people will come through
• Asks for your social media before the reading
• Tries to sell you expensive “curse removal” services
• Makes you feel scared or pressured
• Claims to be 100% accurate all the time

Group Readings: A Different Experience

Some of the most powerful sessions I’ve done have been group mediumship readings. There’s something magical about experiencing Spirit communication with friends and family. Plus, sometimes your loved one will come through for someone else in the group with a message specifically for you – Spirit works in mysterious ways!

If you’re thinking about hosting a group reading, know that it creates an unforgettable experience. Everyone supports each other, and the collective energy often makes the connections even stronger.

The Bottom Line

Your first mediumship reading should leave you feeling loved, comforted, and amazed by the connections that survive beyond this physical world. It’s not about proving anything to anyone – it’s about healing, love, and knowing that the people you’ve lost are never really gone.

Ready to reconnect? If you’re feeling called to connect with your loved ones in Spirit, I’d be honored to help facilitate that beautiful reunion. Every reading is a gift, and your Spirit team is excited to share their love with you.

Curious about group experiences? Let’s create something special for you and your people. There’s nothing quite like sharing the magic of Spirit communication with those closest to you.

Remember: Heaven really does have visiting hours, and your loved ones are always ready to connect.